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Lately, during the in-between time of riding the subway, I've been reading one of John Gray's Mars/Venus series of relationship books: Mars and Venus on a Date. which is not at all the same as saying I did it right or well. There aren't shortcuts and it's actually destructive to jump ahead, commit too early or try too hard. It's only a template, but still, my actions fit on it as do Traci's reactions.
It was on the reading shelf in my apartment's laundry room. As I hopefully made clear to the anonymous whoever-it-is who's followed me on-line and called me crazy whenever I mention Traci, my experience with her serves as a point of reference. It's a neat explanation for why everything I felt so strongly I was doing drove Traci further away from me, ie, the Shane Falco quicksand metaphor.
In a US Army now more memory than real, an AIT instructor used "learning curve" on the first day of class at Fort Huachuca to tell us we would not all learn at the same rate, but just the same, we would all learn.
I'm technophobic; however, the weblog phenomenon impresses me as a revolution in communication. There reaches a point where a pattern emerges and instead of placing blame outside of myself, I need to look at what I'm doing. According to Gray, there are 5 distinct stages of dating (see below).
Our 'collegiality' did us in against ROTC opponents who played dirty politics and rabble-roused without conscience.
Play with purity if you can, but that's a luxury based upon winning. 4 TYPES OF ATTRACTION: * Physical * Emotional * Mental * Spiritual At this stage couples share their positive side with each other, yet maintain their authenticity. This is the time to stay open, and active in her own life.
It's not how you play that matters the most, it's about winning the prize and reaping the opportunities that arise. They continue to look around, date many people, and gain experience with others. Uncertainty is normal at this stage and does not mean they are not "right" for each other. He should ask himself three questions: Could I possible be the "right man for her? Not a time to give more of herself in hope that he will give back.
I'm an idealist, and I'm not about to give that up. To sustain the attraction with one person, they ask themselves, is it possible to get what we need from this person on these attraction levels? UNCERTAINTY: This is a stage where couples are not sure if the person they are with is the "one" for them. Could I possible have what it takes to make her happy? Using this time a woman reflects on what she is getting from the man, and does she want to continue to the next stage with him.
For a long time, the two states - compromise for relationship versus staying true to self - seemed diametrically opposed, and the only other option I saw was the player template.This is the stage where a man pursues the woman and decides if he wants to bond with her.After they have bonded and have moved to the Exclusive stage, then the woman can begin to share some of the expenses and doing little things for him.As a romantic idealist, a "This is how do it" player (to quote one of my Army roommates) is just about the lowest of the low.The idea that the players were right was unacceptable.