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Which is an enormous mistake, because it means jumping straight from one unattractive behaviour (excessive people pleasing) straight to another (excessive coldness and game-playing).
All the while they are missing the beautiful sweet spot in between these two extremes.
But there’s one guarantee: he’ll lose respect, and eventually attraction for you, if he feels like you are compromising something that is important to you.
For example, a guy might like it in the moment when you sleep with him on a first date.
But they do not set out in every interaction to be liked.
They don’t compromise on how they treat their friends in order to spend more time with a guy. They communicate their needs in a calm, assertive way.
This doesn’t mean that everyone has to have the same standard.
Some people’s standards for respect mean they will only sleep with someone after 6 months, for others it’s 3-4 dates, for others it’s whenever they want. What matters is that a guy sees you conform to whatever your standard happens to be.
Try to think about a friend of yours, or someone you know, who seems to just be effortlessly attractive. She just does her thing – she isn’t especially kind or generous, she doesn’t give guys special treatment or play games, and yet she seems to have no problem getting guys intrigued and wanting to chase her, to text her – she’s even had guys begging to lock her down and be exclusive.
High Value women understand that just being agreeable is not attraction.
Attraction can come from those moments when a guy tests the boundaries and just sees that they exist.
It is about doing what feels right to you, and not apologizing for it.
Even if a guy disagrees, he’s going to respect you in that moment for sticking to your standards.